Trauma-informed therapy to overcome anxiety and THRIVE in your relationships

Mary Fleisch Trauma therapist oakland CA; couples therapist oakland CA

Hi, I’m Mary (she/her)

I help individuals and couples just like you: the ones that have it within them to slow down those racing thoughts and be more present and relaxed in their relationships, but just need the support to get there.

Specializing in:

I became a licensed therapist in Oakland, CA because I believe in that resilient spark of you-ness that defies all odds.

I believe that every person is capable of tapping into their own innate resiliency, and ability to live a full, joyous, and meaningful life with beautiful relationships. I’ve noticed that sometimes, people face difficulties in life that hide or dim that spark, but it’s still there, just obscured by the chaos of what life has handed you.

I’ve devoted my life and career to studying that spark. What makes it so that some people can bounce back, while others remain stuck?

How do you become unstuck and push past those obstacles, and add flame to that spark?

You already have that spark within you. I’m here to help you tap into it.

In learning about the “obstacles” or trauma, I’ve gotten advanced training in all things trauma and specialized in my practice to help you tap into that inner flame. I am an integrative therapist, and use a multifaceted approach that works with the mind-body connection to help you get the relief you are searching for.

As a couples therapist, I specialize in supporting couples overcome conflicts or obstacles in the relationship that are caused by unmet emotional needs in the relationship. My trauma-informed training allows me to work with these unmet emotional needs in a sensitive, and compassionate manner.

This allows for profound healing in your connection to each other, by supporting you in learning how to meet these unmet emotional needs in the relationship.

I help my clients find more confidence, an ability to calm overwhelming emotions, and greater connection and intimacy in their relationships.

Through our work together, you'll process difficult emotions and past experiences that hold you back from a joyful and fulfilling life. This leads to stronger relationships, both with others and, most importantly, with yourself.

 

Training Highlights

  • EMDR Certified Therapist

  • Flash Technique trained therapist

  • Year-long advanced course integrating Internal Family Systems, Structural Dissociation, and Somatic Therapy with EMDR

  • IFSCA Stepping Stones Comprehensive 16-week Internal Family Systems course

  • 200 hours yoga teacher training

  • Internal Family Systems for Couples, 2-day training

  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples, externship and core skills (levels 1&2)

  • Gottman for Couples Level 1 trained therapist

  • Ongoing consultation in IFS/ EMDR and in EFT for couples

Licensure & Education:

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, #94264

Master of Arts, Social Work, San Jose State University

Bachelor of Arts, International Development Studies, University of California, Los Angeles

Professional Affiliations:

EMDR International Association

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW 94264

California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists

The International Centre For Excellence In Emotionally Focused Therapy

Bay Area Open Minds

How does the process of trauma therapy or couples therapy work?

I know that your circumstances are unique, so every step we take is tailored to you, and always with an end goal in mind.

1) We will work together in stages, first focusing on getting to know each other and gathering your history.

2) Then, we will focus on your present-day concerns and symptoms that are bringing you into therapy and learn and practice skills together to better regulate your body and mind.

3) Once we have those skills down, we will focus on working through past difficult experiences or difficulties in your relationships that contribute to present-day symptoms.

Imagine thriving in your relationships, feeling confident and equipped to navigate even the toughest emotions. Together, we'll equip you with the skills and confidence to make this a reality.

Let’s get started!

Ready to heal from past trauma & find freedom in your emotions and relationships?

Schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation to learn how trauma-informed therapy or couples therapy can empower you. I'll listen to your concerns and let you know if I'm the right fit for your needs. If not, I'll happily connect you with a therapist who might be a better match.

 

Let’s work together to heal those past wounds to get you fully living in the present moment- as your true, vibrant self.